Building Trust with Your Child When your child trusts you with their heart… My youngest son is 14.If you want to see his gorgeous face, just look up the phrase “ball of energy” in the dictionary. That’s his picture. This boy spent his life surrounded by his four older brothers, but this year caught him off guard. All 3 of the other brothers at home leave the house each day to go to school at the local college. This shocked him like a stun gun the first day as he looked around a the VERY silent house and whispered, “I’m gonna die of boredom this year.” I saw it clearly too. ” Buddy, we have a very unique gift from the Lord this year. It’s just you and me all day. Yes, academics are important, but we’re going to do school differently this year. We’re going to enjoy our time together and strengthen our relationship. Especially since you’re 14, and mom is weird.” Then I stripped back school to the bear minimum. We do math every day, but not very long.He is writing a handful of gut wrenching stories/ so I give him time to write most days.Then he alternates between: history 2 days and science 2 days. For history, I designed a power point/slide outline with my son to be his year long project. If you’ve seen me share, he’s transformed a black and white list into a beautiful presentation. I think he’s made it from Mesopotamia to Rome. Science. We were doing health until the day he trusted me with his heart in the rain. I think it was in January that I really saw myself in the mirror and realize I need to lose about 30 pounds. My body is beginning to hurt and I know if I don’t get back into shape I will fall apart. So I declared, “rain or shine, I need to you help me walk every day. Our first goal will be 2 miles a day for a week, then 3, then 4. But I need to get to 5.” He said, “OK.” Yes, we’ve been soaked a few times…I even had to challenge his “man-hood” by requiring an umbrella twice. lol. Phew! He’s LOVED the time together. The infamous, “I think I want to be a cardio thoracic surgeon” walk, happened after a few WEEKS of getting closer to the 4 mile mark. We had spent hours and hours each day, walking, picking up “treasures” on our beach (gemstones, pretty rocks, shells and sand dollars and just chatting about stuff. I began weaving in some academic discussions while we adventured.We’d pick a road and talk about academic things for the duration of that path: grammar things, history, health. And out of that time together… he trusted me with his dream. We were at least 3 miles into a walk when he said, “Please don’t laugh. I think I really know what I want to be when I grow up…” 💞My heart skipped.He was trusting me with something.I could feel it. This didn’t just happen.This was the fruit of all that time in the street, in the rain, on our walks chatting that unlocked his heart. When I show people the level of work he’s put into his DIY heart unit, their mouth drops open.This is a labor of love project for sure.It looks like he’s an academic genius, absolutely. What it really is? Evidence that he feels loved and “seen”. It all began because I decided to create a Huckleberry Finn style year of wandering,I saw I was over weight and we just hung out and talked without distraction. 👩🦰Mama, give yourself permission to push traditional academics aside. Walk beside your kids and sing in the rain, skip stones, catch butterflies, or go fishing at the pond at the far end of your property. Dedicate a little bit of that time to chat about some “topic for learning” and simply enjoy their company. Who knows.Maybe, just maybe… like my son, your kids will trust you with their dream.
Learning at Home: Everything you need in one place Teaching at Home QUICK START Part One (absolutely free)Download Hi there, This is a living resource. This time in history is unique and I do not remember anything like it in my own life. Fridge reminder is the free download at the top of this page! As someone who was tricked into homeschooling her kids, I can imagine how overwhelming it is for millions of families across the United States. So I want to help. Actually, my husband, Craig Sayler, encouraged me to put together something to help families. As usual, it was a GREAT idea. Grab your 7 week SIMPLIFIED Plan for Teaching your kids at home Download below Teaching at Home QUICK START Part One (absolutely free)Download Preschool page:6, K-2: page 7, 3-5: page 8, 6-8th: Page 9, High School: Page 10 in the FREE download. Bookmark this document so you can find itLike and follow A Better Way to Homeschool (Temporarily: You can unfollow after kids go back to school or the second you don’t think I’m helping you. Do me a favor? Don’t judge my spelling or grammar. I am building these resources together as fast as possible to help as many families as possible and i KNOW I will make more mistakes than usual. Deal? Share this FB Post with anyone you feel can use this help: Just click and it should open https://www.facebook.com/ABetterWayToHomeschool/posts/4162016910482441 You’ve got this! Simple plan Plan your daily routineAssign a few choresSchedule a time for learningKeep track of what you’re doingKEEP IT AS SIMPLE as POSSIBLE Yes, you can share this video! Bookmark This Page. If you decide to continue teaching at home, come back here for Part Two Like and Follow A Better Way to Homeschool on Facebook. I have new, free, and amazing resources for homeschooler and parents at home added daily! Ready for MORE? Teaching at Home EXTENSIONS Part TwoDownload Some Light-hearted Humor I purposely created the Quick Start Part One without Religious material. If you’d like to add a simple FREE Bible lesson that works for all ages, grab this. Parenting in Times of Crisis turned into MAGICAL Memories Ready to Use Homeschool Schedules Looking for Fun Indoor Games and Activities Family Games that Count as LEARNING Fort Building 10 Things You Need to Make an Epic Living Room Forts with your kids OUTDOOR Play is a MUST!! 97+ Ideas for Making Math FUN Math with a Deck of Cards Amazing Handwriting Worksheets Teach Life Skills Gifts from Heaven: Gifts and Letters from the Past These are perfect for time capsule writing DIY Teaching Kids to Cook Kit PRINT THIS FREE REMINDER. This post comes with a free printable reminder list to help keep your heart focused on the heart of our kids. I always have the hardest staying focused. This printable simplifies it! Here is a sneak preview… DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE PRINTABLE Download the checklist. You’ll get the printable, plus join 9,000+ homeschool moms who receive my weekly parenting tips and ideas!Print. Any paper will do the trick, but card stock would be ideal.Place it on your refrigerator as a helpful reminder.
Math with a Deck of Cards Quick round up of all the math games I can find that you can play with a deck of cards. Total of 10 Lay out 20 cards on the table (leave out face cards or change them to equal 0, while aces equal 1). Kids remove sets of cards that add up to 10, ultimately trying to remove all the cards from the table. It’s harder than you think! Learn more at First Grade Round up Nifty 50 This game is great to develop logical thinking and problem solving, review two digit addition and subtraction regrouping, and is fun! The object is to come up with a math equation that has a sum or difference closest to the number 50. First player to five points is the winner! Learn more at Scholastic Great collection from Math Geek Mama! 21 This game is a simplified version played in casinos, with no gambling involved. Object: be the closest to 21 without going over! Learn more at Scholastic Place Value War Turn over 1, 2 or 3 cards. Place them in any position to make the highest number possible. The higher number wins all of the cards for that turn. Learn more at Newark Schools Once through the deck Shuffle the deck and place it face down on the table in front of you. Flip the cards face up, one at a time. For each card, say out loud the sum (or product) of that number plus (or times) the number you want to practice. Don’t say the whole equation, just the answer. Go through the deck as fast as you can. Learn more at Denise Gaskins Related: Games with a deck of card FREE printable by SAU 39 Closest To Starting with two digit numbers, deal out two cards per player. Each player takes the cards in their hand and rearranges the digits to create a number that is closest to 50. The players show each other their hands and the player who is closest to 50 wins the set of all of the players’ cards. Learn more at Math engaged Math Memory Lay all of the cards down on the table face-down in a grid. Players take turns flipping over three cards and seeing if they can make an equation with the face-up cards. Younger players can try using addition and subtraction, and older players can also try using multiplication and division. Players are challenged to remember what cards every player has flipped to help them create equations on their own turn. The player with the most amount of cards at the end of the game wins. Learn more at Math engaged Here’s a game similar to the one described above, but this version allows students to compare fractions instead. You will need two pencils, one for each player, to serve as the fraction line. Learn more at Super Teacher Worksheets Guess My Number Place a student at the front of the room and give him or her two playing cards. The cards can be ordered any way the student wants. Be sure the cards cannot be seen by the class! Take turns around the room guessing what the number is. The types of questions asked have to use math vocabulary, such as, “Is it even?” “Is it odd?” “Is it greater than 10?” “Is it a factor of 20?” and so on. The student can only answer with a “Yes” or “No”, until the actual number is guessed at. Learn more at K5Chalkbox More math with a deck of cards! More math goodies Math Picture Books Breath Life into Arithmetic! 97+ Ideas for Making Math FUN Homeschool Math: Grab your Roadmap to Success
DIY Doll Game and Activity your kids will Love this game/activity!! This beautiful activity comes from author Gail Masinda, with Maestro Heights. The idea is simple. Learn to care for baby while living your normal life. Perfect for training siblings for life with baby! There are two sets of activities: small manageable taskswhat baby needs. How to play Place each in their own jar/basket.Begin the day with a smt. Complete the taskThen reach in and see what baby needs. Set the timer and kids practice setting baby’s needs above their own. PLUS, you get a little bit of time too! Back slips are included so you can customize chore/tasks and activities for baby. Kids can use dolls or stuffed animals for “Baby”. I purposely used the word BABY and did not include his/her pronouns. HAVE Fun! Download your free copy here Visit Gail’s beautiful Music Room
Best Subscription Boxes for Kids There’s never been a better time to try subscription boxes. With all the supplies, instructions, and fun already hand-picked and ready to go… You’re kids are gonna love you! Food for thought: These make GREAT gifts for people in nursing homes too!! Quick Links KiwiCoMel ScienceBitsboxIvy KidsYoung WoodworkersLet’s Make ArtRock By RockRaddishLetter from AfarHighlights Little PassportsThink OutsideCraftsman CrateSensory Therapy Play BoxBarkBoxDIY Preschool Earth Box PlanDIY ABCs of God Plan Free Science for three months from Mel Science? Here’s how you register! When you really want to know what’s best you ask the experts, right?Kids LOVE getting stuff in the mail! Surprise them with a special gift – A subscription box just for THEM! Perfect for birthdays, holidays and more! But, if you’re like me you’re wondering which are the BEST Subscription Boxes for kids. So I asked all the moms On our Facebook page: I’m looking for subscription box and membership ideas for homeschoolers. Most subscription boxes are chosen to meet a specific need, want, or interest. Throw in the fact that you don’t need to look for duct tape, buttons, or instructions for how to whip together something cool and BOOM. Your kids will think you’re the coolest mom on the planet. Not sure which boxes will best fit your family? That’s exactly why I asked a few dozen of my homeschooling friends. Check out all the AMAZING subscription boxes other Homeschool Moms love. …Read More »
Parenting in Times of Crisis turned into MAGICAL Memories When I was about 11-years old I had the BEST summer ever. Family wildflower walks every evening after dinner.Family wifle ball games.Family soccer games. (got a basement?) We lived on a 15 acre farm in Connecticut and my dad spent the summer carving out adventures for us with his ride-on tractor. ⚽️First he cut the soccer field. ⚾️Then he lowered the mover and cut a baseball diamond into the same field. 💐He carved a 6-foot wide path around a huge field on our property so he could take us on a walk to see “which wild flowers bloomed” that day. 🌼We played🌱Caught dragon flies🌱Watch clouds float by👀Sat in the yard playing I-spy🎼Turned off all the lights in the house and blared the music while playing “who knows the most lyrics to each song” We fed wild birds, watched the squirrels steal their food and simply enjoyed each other’s company. 🐾What a great summer! It wasn’t until I was a grown woman that I learned the truth. 😳Dad had been laid off that summer. While he applied for over 150 jobs looking for work at night, during the day he created, played, and was present with all four of us kids. Today, we have a choice. I say, let’s make this season of quarantine the “BEST Spring vacation of our kids’ childhood.” 🌸Be present🌷Read🌱Cut soccer fields out with a lawn mower⚽️Play games And at night, when the kids are nestled in bed make our plan for the next day. I found the EXACT 200+ year old house I lived in at the time.Yes, I had a heart attack too. It was not fully restored when I lived in it. It was NOT this beautiful when I lived there. But you get a rare opportunity to see where my DREAM summer was lived out.Page 27. That yellow room is where I heard my sisters snore like tigers.Page 28 was a closet PACKED with boxes and clothing and didn’t have a window.Page 31 was the scary attic in our garage where my parents hid Christmas presentsPage 34 is the window I witnesses the greatest ice storm I’ve ever seen. I sat on the sofa and peeked out.Page 38 shows you why I remember spending a HUGE portion of time doing yard work with my dad. But the magical field?Page 32. Walk to the right of the garage and hang a right after that clump of trees… I spent hours and hours and hours there with my family, led by my father… When I lived here, all the walls were white. There wasn’t any fancy decor. We had 13 cats, no heat in my room (you could see your breath) What’s your favorite memory from your childhood? If you know people who can use an easy to follow plan for school for the next few weeks/months… Share this FREE, no gimmick plan with them. Learning at Home: Everything you need in one place
A Family Fish Unit INSTANT Activity day! Theme: FISH Materials needed: Fishing poleweight/clayPaintPaint brushSmall snack like golf fish crackers PHYSICAL ACTIVITY Tie a weight to the line.Set up targets in the yardHave kids try to land the weight in the target. FOOD: Got goldfish crackers?They can win a few for each great cast. SCIENCE: Grab a free fish life cycle activity MOVIE: Finding Nemo Yes! Pop some popcorn! ART: Paint a fish! https://youtu.be/XgoXqxXlf5E MATH: Group goldfish, or legos, into groups of 2, 3, 5, 6, or any number. Practice skip counting Story: Listen to RAINBOW Fish! https://www.storylineonline.net/books/the-rainbow-fish/ Put on a Puppet show! Make talking fish: https://youtu.be/LCsMvSEoadIMake colorful fish on sticks https://youtu.be/aTcWPtoXcacMake fish Sock Puppet
DIY Teaching Kids to Cook Kit How? Set a BUDGET (You can create a great crate for $25+)Load up all the goodies into your cart (Items from Teachers Pay Teachers and Amazon)From your cart, make your final selections.Download your printable lesson and prep lessons while you wait for your goodies to arrive.Watch your kids get excited …Read More »
Don’t Homeschool Your Kids Dear homeschool mom, Don’t homeschool. I’m not kidding. Yes, kids need to read and write and solve basic math problems, but they don’t need school at home. They need to have plenty of time to run, jump, slide, swing, lay, laugh, build, and rest. Related: building toys Give them time to be bored, time to think, time to day dream. Don’t give them workbooks, worksheets, and hours of assignments. Instead, give them LESS. …Read More »
Choosing a Chore System that Works for Your Family Inside: Age Appropriate Chores {printable} We have always believed in the philosophy that children are a welcomed addition to our family. We love, eat, live, play and WORK together as a family unit. We also make messes faster than the chicken can cross the road to prove to the opossum it can be done. … Read More »
DIY Camel Bible Study Crate for Kids How? Set a BUDGET (You can create a great crate for $25+)Load up all the goodies into your cart (Items from Teachers Pay Teachers and Amazon)From your cart, make your final selections.Download your printable lesson and prep lessons while you wait for your goodies to arrive.Watch your kids get excited Bible Study Printable mini-lessons …Read More »
97+ Ideas for Making Math FUN Inside: A master list of simple, inexpensive, and fun ways to teach all the basic math principles your kids need to thrive. PLUS- Free Math Roadmap Most homeschoolers overcomplicate math with fancy curriculum, worksheets, quizzes, stop-watches and tests. We choose to be different! Related: Grab your FREE Math Roadmap Printable Stripping math back to its basic foundational core, we can set our kids up for success in life by giving them a solid foundation with allows them to add, subtract, multiply, divide, count, measure, weigh, and estimate. Most kids are not mathematicians hiding inside little bodies. They are dancers, chefs, architects, designers, farmers, mechanics, bankers, writers or yet-to-be-decideds. …Read More »
Perfect Moms Don’t Exist! Celebrate the journey of being a loving, caring, attentive, less-than-perfect mom! “I breast fed, made my own baby food, and read aloud to my kids for hours. Before I knew it, they were eating off the car floor and I was like, ‘thanks for cleaning.'” Get one for you and your bestie! PRINT THIS FREE HOMESCHOOL MOM REMINDER. …Read More »
100+ Preschool Earth Activities to Help You Earn Your Super Mom Trophy! Drum roll… Preschool Earth Books, Art, Games, and Activities are inside to help you find easy and inexpensive crafts to do with kids on Earth Day or while studying the planets. Free DIY Earth Crate Plan Today, Earth Day is widely recognized as the largest secular observance in the world, marked by more than a billion people every year as a day of action to change human behavior and provoke policy changes.Earth Day While our little ones may not be ready to join the billions of people celebrating, they will ADORE these green and blue activities as they learn about: our planetways to protect our homecrafts that capture the beauty around uspaying attention to how we live together on this big blue marble. Related: Nasa has some really amazing images to dazzle their imagination. …Read More »
Life Skills for Kids of All Ages This is where the rubber hits the road in homeschooling and raising up the future generation! “We NEED these!!” Be nice to peopleHow to make a bedThe proper handshake5 ways to cook an eggHow to sew a buttonHow to iron a shirtDigital mannersHow to tie a tieHow to secure passwordsWhat to do if locked out of your houseGross habits to STOP and avoidSmall talkHow to pass on a complimentSmall talkand so much more!!! These mini units are hands-on, FUN, and guaranteed to be filled with things your kids REALLy need to know to ROCK Life! Don’t miss a lesson! The Proper Handshake Buy Now! PRINT THIS FREE HOMESCHOOL MOM REMINDER. This post comes with a free printable reminder list to help keep your heart focused on those important life lessons. I always have the hardest staying focused. This printable simplifies it! Here is a sneak preview… DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE PRINTABLE Download the checklist. You’ll get the printable, plus join 9,000+ homeschool moms who receive my weekly parenting tips and ideas!Print. Any paper will do the trick, but card stock would be ideal.Place it on your refrigerator as a helpful reminder. WANT MORE POSTS ON HOMESCHOOLING FROM THE HEART? 120 is the number of classics you need to read Don’t homeschool your kids Godly women and homeschool You don’t need to apologize
22 Simple Manners Every Kids Should Know By High School On his big day, our son sat in a pile of gifts. He had that, “Oh my goodness look at all the gifts for me” daze. BAD MOMMY. I hadn’t learned the lesson of prepping kids ahead of time for situations like this. I hadn’t given him the skills to succeed. He didn’t even know he was set to fail and worse, let down a good friend… It makes the blood drain from my face as I remember Jay. … Read More »
10 Things You Need to Make an Epic Living Room Forts with your kids Lies. Big fat lies! Living room forts are NOT just for little kids!! Call all the kids and announce you have a plan that requires zip ties, boxes, blankets, and food. Then watch their faces. Your big kids may look at you funny. That’s ok. If you dangle the correct snack, they’ll jump on board too. Once the BIG kids get on board, prepare yourself for some EPIC fort building! …Read More »