God is in Control in the Beginning, Middle and End of the Story “Oh, my God!” My husband tossed his phone and looked at me with tear filled eyes. Thanksgiving evening, he received a text from a trusted friend that a family mentor was in jail after committing a heinous crime.The more we read, the more we sat there shaking our heads. How is this possible?He was so strong in the Lord when our daily lives crossed paths. How did he go from sold out servant for Christ to being faced with the death penalty? … Read More »
Why you should teach your kids to gossip Inside: Good Gossip Rules to read with coffee, teach your kids, and hang on your fridge. Did you hear the one about Kelly? Something in our heart either leaps or panics when we hear someone whisper those words. Gossip is delightfully delicious, contagious and bad. Right? I love what John Courson has to say on the subject of gossip. “between friends”, by Seth Doyle A gossip, or talebearer, hurts three people: the person he talks about, the person he talks to, and himself. First, in a very real sense, people are who we say they are, regardless of whether what we say is true. People will either be lifted up or put down in the estimation of others by what we say about them. Jesus draws a direct parallel between murder and the tongue because we have the power to kill another person’s reputation with our words (Matthew 5:21-22) Second, telling tales, or gossiping, hurts the person who listens because it affects the way he or she will view the person being talked about. Finally, gossip hurts the talebearer himself because every time we gossip, we become smaller and smaller. As has been wisely said, great minds talk about ideas or ideals; good minds about events; small minds about people. In which company are you? … Read More »
What to Give Your Teen After an Epic Failure By the time our kids reach high school, we will be tempted to “let them go” and “cut the cords”. But don’t. My son stood before the crowd. He looked sharp. Before leaving for the speech competition, he discovered how to create the coolest known knot for his tie by searching YouTube. Sharp. Poised. Confident. Ready to win this competition. … Read More »
Homeschooling Beyond the Fear of Messing up Your Kids I could sense the tear stains in her email. This young mama talked about all the normal homeschooling things Where to begin How to set schedules How to help her child succeed Choosing the right teaching style to match her son But her real fear jumped out from between the lines. … Read More »
5 Magic Steps to Rescue Your Mind During Homeschool Inside: 5 Things you can do today to conquer your homeschooling frustration. (This content may contain affiliate links) Somedays are so hard we pack a backpack and run away. Photo by Jeremy Bishop Have you ever seen those old carnival performers that spin plates on poles? To be awesome at this trick, you must: · Spin a plate fast and place it on the end of a pole. Keep it spinningAdd more plates on poles. Keep all plates spinning: the more plates spinning the better Oh no! Plate one begins to wobble. … Read More »
Homeschool Conference 2018: Right at your Kitchen Table Inside: a personal invite to a homeschool conference in your yoga pants! About 20 years ago, five homeschool moms jumped into a van and went on a journey to our first homeschooling convention. Leaving behind husbands, babies, and small children we were convinced we needed this conference to set us up for success in our school year. … Read More »
A Simple Solution for Internet Safety: WebProtectMe Funny how life and parenting weave together. It was a beautiful chilly day. We had decided to take a hike along the windy and wild Kern River. Such a wonderful day. Right up to the moment that our son fell into the water. … Read More »
Your Ultimate Community of Homeschooling Supporters Let’s stop trying to be perfect homeschoolers and realize that we need each other on this crazy journey. Okay? photo by Lisa Fotios Come here: When you’re at your wit’s end and need advice from someone who’s been there. When you’re having a hard day and just need to know you’re not alone. For ideas, tips, and lesson plans. When your kid does something unbearably sweet, incredibly brilliant and you don’t want to annoy all your Facebook friends by gushing. … Read More »
How to Homeschool Successfully: Get Your Practical Guide Homeschooling: one of the most rewarding, challenging, frustrating things I have ever done. I personally have five children. All boys. Yes, It’s as overwhelming as it sounds! Sometimes all I need is a little space, and a bag full of Oreos. Other times I need a homeschool ally. My homeschooling journey began when my husband said, “Give it a try for a year and we will talk about it again.” … Read More »
How to Organize Your Life in the Midst of Homeschooling Perfect Family project during the virus social distancing! Just 10-minutes a day (2-3 songs on your favorite playlist) and watch your house get in order! Join the FREE 10-minute challenge! Being Organized is not on the top of my skills list. Neither is shopping. Oh, I sure wish it was, but alas, I fail in these areas. What I have discovered is that I do not have to be the best of everything. I just need to be the best “asker of help”. … Read More »
46 Easy Freezer Meals to the Rescue: Life Hack Inside: Never panic about dinner again. 46 Easy Freezer Meals to the Rescue. I remember barely making it home. photo by Ricardo Alfaro When we lived up in the mountain a few years back, I would have to drive “down the hill” to go grocery shopping. At first, it was very romantic packing up the kids for more than half a day, driving down the mountain far enough into the atmosphere that you left wearing a jacket and arrived needing a bathing suit. Yeah, it got old quickly…. Read More »
Lifelong learning: What Does Long Hair Have to Do with Homeschool? If you jump over to my instagram, you will catch a glimpse of a common theme developing in my life… Hair. french braids buns ponytails mermaid braid I’ve almost always worn long hair. In my youth, I’ve dreamed of being able to create stunning princes level hairstyles, but couldn’t figure them out on my own. When I began growing my hair out I quickly became bored with the plain old braid I wore every other day. And then it dawned on me to look on YouTube and I found the Missy Sue Blog. Related: Tips for growing longer hair Missy Sue did all the hard work for me, showed me how to divided my locks, use mini-bands and bobby pins, and create fantastic designs with my hair. Related: a beautiful hair pin really makes a big difference Hair and Homeschooling The theme for this year has been “falling in love with learning”… for me. Homeschool mama, we need to become excited about a few things to model the modern truth- You can really learn almost anything on YouTube. This is a different world from when we were in high school. Today, Kids walk around with supercomputers in their hands and have the ability to become experts in pretty much any field with a little determination and a whole bunch of practice. Gone are the days when kids graduate high school, go to college to become an expert in their chosen field, and then quietly settle in a career for 40 years. The average person will change careers 5-7 times during their working life according to career change statistics. With an ever-increasing number of different career choices on offer, approximately 30% of the total workforce will now change jobs every 12 months. By the age of 42 you will probably already have had about ten jobs. [DOL] That little fact would have given me a heart attack as a teenager, but as a homeschool mom, it makes me more determined than ever to equip kids for this ever-changing world. Freebie: 70 Creative ideas for Homeschooling Homeschoolers are in a unique position to help their kids. Our children have time to explore topics can identify areas of interest and dig deep have the ability to become expert learners Model Learning: Show them how it’s Done It is so important that we model learning for our kids. They need to see learning in action. Find something to be excited about, something challenging… and then go find some YouTube videos, books, magazines, or a tutor and learn. Learn a new skill simply for the challenge and joy of it. Share your enthusiasm with your kids. Model perseverance. Don’t be afraid to fail, but never quit! So far I have taught myself (and a few sons) how to knit and now how to style long hair. They all want to be daddies someday and hope to have little girls. Maybe they’ll even have the opportunity to teach their wives how to braid. Ideas for learning are endless All about herbs Improving your blog’s SEO hairstyles rebuilding an engine life skills building treehouses making a quilt aquaponics coin collecting starting a store on Etsy Social Media Marketing writing Resumes and cover letters sustainable living creating apps recycling for profit making wooden arrows cooking painting with watercolors homeschooling with littles The possibilities are truly endless. What are you excited to learn about? Start today! Print this free homeschool mom reminder.This post comes with a free printable reminder list to help keep your heart focused on the heart of homeschooling. I always have the hardest staying focused. This printable simplifies it!Here is a sneak preview…Download Your Free Printable Download the checklist. You’ll get the printable, plus join 9,000+ homeschool moms who receive my weekly parenting tips and ideas! Print. Any paper will do the trick, but card stock would be ideal. Place it on your refrigerator as a helpful reminder.
Why I Decorate for Christmas BEFORE Thanksgiving Yes, I am one of those people. I absolutely love the Christmas Season. But I hate the business, bustle, and hassle. Christmas is the time of year when we get to focus fully on the birth of our Lord and Savior, and I always became frantic right after Thanksgiving while I was scurrying to get everything set for our family traditions. A few years ago I was reflecting on a friend’s tradition of decorating before Thanksgiving. Like you, I thought she was crazy… so I asked her about it. … Read More »
Will You Kids be Ready to Leave Your Nest? Inside: If you’re hoping your kids will live with you forever, don’t read this. In the old days, children were given a suitcase for their 18th birthday. That’s right. “When you graduate, be ready to hit the road, Jack!” photo by Mike Birdy Take my dad.… Read More »
The One Skill Your Homeschooler is Missing As a homeschooler, I can struggle with pride. I can become so puffed up about the skills that my sons have developed under my watchful eye. It’s an easy challenge. We’re right there guiding them from crawling, to walking, to reading, and eventually to solving quadratic equations. We even require that they keep their art supplies neat. But, honestly… Sometimes I miss the mark entirely. … Read More »
Teaching with Legos! How to Look Beyond the Mess Sometimes going up the stairs is enough to ruin your day. … Read More »
Tips for Driving Safely in the Snow They laughed at my husband.“You’re gonna get stuck,” they teased as they all stood around watching him put autosocks on his car.Autosocks. Yes, they’re realVisiting from California, those native Iowans thought he’d lost his mind. How could he possibly drive in the ice and snow with socks? “You need chains!” My husband is what we affectionately call a research-a-holic. He doesn’t just read about something; he dives deep.Multiple articlescase studiesspecification sheets You Tube videosReviews. If he says something is the best, I’ve learned to simply smile and say, “ok!”Autosocks were one of those discoveries I wanted to debate, but I kept quiet for the sake of peace in the home. Really. I forced myself to keep quiet and it was a good thing I did.Once again, my husband proved he’s brilliant.We moved into the mountains after spending most of our marriage in San Diego and he wanted us to be prepared for snow. So he dug in.Being from Chicago, the man had nightmares about chains. If you love in snowy areas, you are well acquainted with the drama. So he searched alternatives.I still remember him staring at his computer and turning his head sideways, like a puppy trying to understand your last sentence. “Hmmm”A few days, and many hours of research later, autosocks arrived at our home via AmazonPrime. He couldn’t wait for it to snow so he could give them a spin.His First Chance Came when He traveled to Iowa for Grandma’s Memorial Service.Eight inches of snow fell during the memorial and he pulled out his new socks. Folks gathered ’round to see what the “crazy Californian” was doing to his car. Everyone lined the streets to mock him. Family. Enough said.He quickly slipped them over the tops of the tires, then drove forward and snapped them into place. All the bystanders gave the “yea, right head nod” as he drove away.Mouths dropped open.That day, many of his family members got stuck in the snow. But not my brilliant man.I had my own opportunity to try the socks recently.I kept sliding down the last hill to civilization. I needed to get to the grocery store, but the hill was a sheet of ice. I smiled at the son sitting next to me. “You get to learn how to use the autosocks today!”My neighbor hung out the second story window and told me I was crazy. “You need chains to get up that hill!”I smiled and told her about the socks.She replied, “I’m just gonna hang out the window and watch you slide.”Really, she’s wonderful. She’s kind, friendly, and helpful. She just couldn’t believe those things were going to work.Her mouth dropped open as I drove right up the hill.Tips for driving safely in the SnowAccording to AAA, these tips will help keep you safer on the road:Stay home. Only go out if necessary. Even if you can drive well in bad weather, it’s better to avoid taking unnecessary risks by venturing out.Drive slowly. Always adjust your speed down to account for lower traction when driving on snow or ice.Accelerate and decelerate slowly. Apply the gas slowly to regain traction and avoid skids. Don’t try to get moving in a hurry and take time to slow down for a stoplight. Remember: It takes longer to slow down on icy roads.Increase your following distance to five to six seconds. This increased margin of safety will provide the longer distance needed if you have to stop.Know your brakes. Whether you have antilock brakes or not, keep the heel of your foot on the floor and use the ball of your foot to apply firm, steady pressure on the brake pedal.Don’t stop if you can avoid it. There’s a big difference in the amount of inertia it takes to start moving from a full stop versus how much it takes to get moving while still rolling. If you can slow down enough to keep rolling until a traffic light changes, do it.Don’t power up hills. Applying extra gas on snow-covered roads will just make your wheels spin. Try to get a little inertia going before you reach the hill and let that inertia carry you to the top. As you reach the crest of the hill, reduce your speed and proceed downhill slowly.Don’t stop going up a hill. There’s nothing worse than trying to get moving up a hill on an icy road. Get some inertia going on a flat roadway before you take on the hill.Tips for Teaching Teens to Drive in the Snow by The Brad ConnectionMake sure you have the right equipment in the car (shovel, snow brush, ice scraper, etc)Turn on your lights so others can see youDrive slower and leave three times the room needed to stopBrake gently so you don’t skidNever use cruise controlBe careful of ice on bridges and overpasses. “Black Ice” is transparent and may look like a wet spot but can put you in a spin.Four wheel drive doesn’t mean you can drive on ice or in snow at the regular speed.Don’t pass snow plows. Staying behind them can make a clear road for you to drive on.Brake gently and if your brakes lock up, ease off the brakeI know it’s tempting to go for a drive when it’s snowy and icy. It is truly beautiful. I’d recommend waiting for the roads to clear, but if you find yourself in need of being on the road, grab your socks!
Homeschooling Magic: Lessons From A Stranger’s Purse Inside: 8 Steps to help you create a plan for house management, meals, routines, fun, and homeschool. The first time we flew across the country with our then 3-year old, we thought we were ready. The flight was only supposed to be a few hours long- how bad could it be? We made sure our son slept well the night before, we ran him ragged before the flight, we packed some of his favorite toys and snacks, and we boarded the flight with a smile. We were sure we were ready. I was sure I was ready. Ha. … Read More »
I Quit: Again! (write down your bad days. you’ll laugh later… This was one of my “bad days” last year-enjoy) Today is definitely one of those days. I should have quit when: The ceiling started dripping. I realized the water was coming from the upstairs bathroom. When I called the landlord to tell her that the upstairs bathroom was leaking into the downstairs bathroom. When my 7th grader decided I was “wasting his time by trying to get him to write down a few math steps”. My 7th grader was shaking in frustration, confusion, and rebellion. The plumber came and asked me where the main water turn off was for our new home. My 6the grader decided that 2 hours was an appropriate time limit for a lesson that was begun with the words, “honey, I am letting you do this easy math lesson today so you can practice three things: neatness, discipline, and timing…” I looked at my 6th grader’s paper only to discover he had only neatly written the lesson number after 30 minutes. My 4th grader disappeared from the school area… AGAIN. My 7th grader announces to me, in front of the plumber, “mom, ______ just bit ______” (no names to protect the guilty) Related: The Heart of Homeschooling God’s Way Ok, I really should have quit when: I realized that one of my kids bit another of my kids. (Really? I have No kids under the age of 9!!!) The guilty child was just “play biting in order to get his toy back…” (I repeat. My kids are older than 9). The plumber asks, “So… You homeschool?” I reply, “Yes sir. Only today is one of those days that I question homeschooling!” I really, really, really should have quit when: The boys almost hung the dog. Accidentally of course. So, I quit. Just now. I sent the boys to bed until tomorrow. (Or until I cool down, whichever comes first) Do you ever keep going on a day that clearly communicates, “STOP!” Tell me, I’m not the only one!! [leadpages_leadbox leadbox_id=142a79846639c5] [/leadpages_leadbox] Print this free homeschool mom reminder.This post comes with a free printable reminder list to help keep your heart focused on the heart of homeschooling. I always have the hardest staying focused. This printable simplifies it!Here is a sneak preview…Download Your Free PrintableDownload the checklist. You’ll get the printable, plus join 9,000+ homeschool moms who receive my weekly parenting tips and ideas!Print. Any paper will do the trick, but card stock would be ideal.Place it on your refrigerator as a helpful reminder.