The Beauty of Leaving Kids Hanging in a Story January 10, 2019 By Bekki 4 Comments This content may contain affiliate links.Inside: The Secret to Hooking Kids into the Habit of Reading- Teaching Kids to Read “I hate that book!” I couldn’t believe my then 3rd grader was turning his nose to a book I loved. Especially since he hadn’t even cracked the cover. “That’s OK,” I said. “But, you may not move from your seat and I will simply read it aloud to myself because I love it…” I began to read and read. Just when I could tell he had fallen in love with the story, and just at the height of excitement I shut the book. “Wait!” he shouted. I smiled. I knew I had him. “Maybe it’s an OK story…” photo by Aaron Burden Ha! I had him. I have played this dirty trick on each of my boys, many times actually. One of the keys to becoming an excellent writer is simply being exposed to lots and lots of great literature. LOTS. So, I still read aloud to my kids. My teenaged kids. All of our school-aged boys beg me to read each morning. My oldest enjoys it as well, although he is quick to point out my mispronunciations in our current read-aloud because he is at that “know it all age” and is a history major in college. Our current read-aloud, The Lost Hero, centers around Greek and Roman gods and apparently I butcher their names. (I mean, come on… I never remember learning how to pronounce Dionysus or Hephaestus correctly when I went to public school as a child!) In order for kids to fall in love with reading and writing, they often need to be shown how amazing they both can be. I strongly suggest you begin (or continue) to read aloud to them for the rest of their lives! Great stories capture their imaginations and begin to infiltrate their hearts and minds and eventually spill out in their writing. Read aloud to your kids for the rest of their lives! Or for as long as you can hold them captive. Great stories capture their imaginations and begin to infiltrate their hearts, minds, vocabulary, and eventually spill out in their writing. Every family has their own set of guidelines and standard for choosing great age-appropriate literature for their kids. I would suggest that you choose books that are just above their reading level for read-alouds. Use dramatic voices and hand motions as you read and allow yourself to get carried away with the story. Take “rabbit trails” as you read. A “rabbit trail” is a journey of the current topic, but leads away from it quickly. For instance, I am going to teach my boys about Greek mythology now because of their interest in the current series we are enjoying together. Read-aloud daily! Need help choosing a great story? Talk to your local librarian. Interview other parents. Get a copy of Honey for a Child’s Heart I relied heavily on Honey for a Child’s Heart as my kids began to read. It truly is “everything a parent needs to know to find the best books for their children. Since its publication in 1969, this has been an essential guide for parents wanting to find the best books for their children. Now in its fourth edition, Honey for a Child’s Heart discusses everything from the ways reading affects both children’s view of the world and their imagination to how to choose good books. Illustrated with drawings from dozens of favorites, it includes an indexed and updated list of the best new books on the market and the classics that you want your children to enjoy. Author Gladys Hunt’s tastes are broad, her advice is rooted in experience, and her suggestions will enrich the cultural and spiritual life of any home.” POPULAR RESOURCES Be in the KNOW. Get on the list so you get the first word of the BIG Annual Online Homeschool Mom’s Conference! Praying for Our Kids 97 Fun and Inexpensive Way to Teach Math Homeschooling: I wish someone had told me this from the beginning!! HOW CAN YOU REACH ME? You can email me here Abetterwaytohomeschool@gmail.com Facebook: A Better Way to Homeschool Facebook: Our Lives As Homeschool Moms
Keisha Hanvy says March 5, 2014 at 3:42 pm Thanks for linking up at the Homeschool Linky Party! I absolutely love this post as I have read to my children from before they were born and now that they are older still love sharing stories with them! Reply
Bekki says March 5, 2014 at 11:56 pm I have to hide from my older kids when I read aloud! They absolutely LOVE being read to! My sophomore will roam into the reading area when I am reading engaging novels. Honestly I I love it that they all enjoy the books as much as I do!! Reply
Angela Michelle says March 6, 2014 at 3:37 am I love reading to my daughter. Right now, since she is still in public school (we will be homeschooling soon) I don't get very many opportunities. I think that is one thing I am most excited about. Reply
Bekki says March 6, 2014 at 7:30 am Reading and snuggling with my kids is my favorite part of our homeschool day. Right now our youngest is 8. He prepares a special reading nest for us on his bed for our reading time. He loves it as much as I do! We always has more books pulled than a I can read at one sitting:). There is something extra sweet about snuggling and sharing a good book. Enjoy every opportunity!! Reply