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					<description><![CDATA[We don&#8217;t fit in as parents today. In general parents today let their kids float. Through life.Through school.Through everything.I stink at that.My kids don&#8217;t float. They work.   Things We Fail at in Parenting.Letting boys be boys.I have five of them. Trust me, they do not need help being boys. They need help being future...</p><p><a class="more-link" href="https://abetterwaytohomeschool.com/sucking-as-parent-in-todays-world.html">Read More &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We don&#8217;t fit in as parents today.</p>
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<p>In general parents today let their kids float.</p>
<p>Through life.<br />Through school.<br />Through everything.<br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />I stink at that.<br /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />My kids don&#8217;t float. They work.</p>
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<p><b><u>Things We Fail at in Parenting.</u></b><br /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><b><u>Letting boys be boys.</u></b><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />I have five of them. Trust me, they do not need help being boys. They need help being <b>future men</b>.<br /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />We are training up the future men of this world, and we take that seriously. Our boys are clean, clean cut, and hard working&#8230; Whether they like it or not.<br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><b><u>Letting boys sit around all day</u></b>.<br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />My &#8220;Mommy Sense&#8221; (similar to Spider-Man&#8217;s &#8216;Spidey Sense&#8217;) kicks into overdrive when I see my boys sitting on the sofa during the day.<br />I immediately start asking, did you do this, did you do that?<br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />Sorry. Boys should not sit unless they are on the toilet.<br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><b><u>Letting my boys have their own style of dress and hair.</u></b><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />Future men worthy of serving God, loving their wives, running their businesses, etc should be <i>others</i> centered.<br /><a style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tbfkDl92DKI/VYSBXVAwkUI/AAAAAAAAFE8/amRenhgJM4Q/s1600/family.JPG"><img decoding="async" src="https://abetterwaytohomeschool.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/family.jpg" width="320" height="300" border="0" /></a><br />If they wear their hair and clothes in a way that makes &#8220;grandma&#8221; to feel uncomfortable and cross the street to avoid contact with them. <strong>Not acceptable.</strong><br /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />While I&#8217;m all for freedom of expression, my boys express themselves in a boring way physically and that <u>will give</u> them an edge. <br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" /><b>Expecting teenage years to be Easy.</b><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;" />We expect the teenage years to be hard because we will make them hard.</p>
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<li>Hard to disrespect us,.</li>
<li>Hard to disobey the house rules</li>
<li>Hard to live in our house and break our rules,</li>
<li>hard to break things like curfews,</li>
<li>Hard to be a glutton.</li>
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<p>Yep. Teenage Years will be hard.</p>
<p>Moms and dads, if you have boys join us at stinking to raise them to be wimpy, lazy, self centered men.</p>
<p>If you have little girls, stink at raising them to be focused on selfies, self, make-up, and sexuality.</p>
<p>We need to stink at parenting &#8220;today&#8221; and excel at parenting for tomorrow.</p>


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<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>PRINT THIS FREE HOMESCHOOL MOM REMINDER.</strong></h3>



<p>This post comes with a&nbsp;<strong>free printable reminder list to help keep your heart focused on the heart of homeschooling</strong>. I always have the hardest staying focused. This printable simplifies it!</p>



<p>Here is a sneak preview…</p>



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<ol class="wp-block-list"><li><strong>Download the checklist</strong>. You’ll get the printable, plus join 9,000+ homeschool moms who receive my weekly parenting tips and ideas!</li><li><strong>Print</strong>. Any paper will do the trick, but&nbsp;<a href="https://amzn.to/2N94Ax5">card stock</a>&nbsp;would be ideal.</li><li><strong>Place it on your refrigerator&nbsp;</strong>as a helpful reminder.</li></ol>



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